Showing posts with label A Heart Touching Story. Show all posts
Showing posts with label A Heart Touching Story. Show all posts

Wednesday, August 17, 2011

Introduction to the Internet

internet
This is a computer network consisting of a worldwide network that connects individuals who are worlds apart. The network uses TCP/IP network protocol to enable data transmission from one central processing unit to another.
The value the internet has added to the society is the improved ease in communication over long distances. Internet has reduced the cost incurred in communication since, it is not expensive to communicate thorough emails and so forth. It has reduced cost involved in advertising of products and services, nowadays there are variety of websites that advertise their products and services over the internet. In the process people are able to purchase those services or products over the net this makes it easier for both the buyer and seller.
The internet connects individuals that are worlds apart through emails, online social websites and so forth. Whereby, they can communicate as if they are just next to each other. Internet makes it possible for people to share information educate the society through websites. People who want to pursue their studies as they work sometimes find it cumbersome to go for evening classes. The internet has changed that and people can study at home via internet and search for loads of different and informative stuff and it’s even good for them to browse for different stuff online and get more awareness that they can never get without getting interacted on internet.

Saturday, March 20, 2010

Touch for Rapture Rather Than Effect


Once I had a client-couple, Arthur and Ellie (not their real names). Arthur loved making out with her, and she loved his enthusiasm and attention. He loved the way she felt—there was something about her smooth and creamy skin, and the way she responded with such delight to his loving and passionate touch. Yet (and she felt guilty just thinking about it, because she knew he was trying so hard) Ellie often found it hard to fully surrender to his touch. Sometimes she felt almost as if she were resisting it! This made no sense to her—he was so enthusiastic and passionate!
Touch for Rapture Rather Than EffectArthur (being the sensitive soul that he is) noticed this (eventually) and thought, “I should focus even more on making sure this feels really good to Ellie. I want her to fall in love with the way I make love with her.” So he’d try even harder to get the good effects. And while Ellie appreciated his intention, the more he turned up his efforts, the less what he did felt good to her.
Every woman wants as much love, care, and attention, just like Art was giving to Ellie! Why wasn’t their strategy working? Should I have told Arthur to try less to please her?
Arthur was following a common strategy: he was trying to make it feel good to her. Well—doesn’t that make sense? I call this strategy “touching for effect.” You are touching for effect when your goal is to make the other person feel pleasure.
Touching for effect puts your attention on you (“How am I doing?”) rather than on your partner—and your partner can feel this. Pleasure occurs in the present moment, not in the future. Great pleasure comes from playfulness and exploration, not from trying to make something wonderful happen.
Here’s what happens with the touch-for-effect strategy:
  • Your partner can feel that you are not engaging with them in the present moment. They can feel that your attention is on your performance—not really on their pleasure.
  • Because your attention is on how well you’re performing, it isn’t on your pleasure either—so you actually feel less than you could. The less you can feel, the less you are aware of (and can respond to) what your partner is feeling. If you think they can’t tell this is happening, ask them.
    • Since your partner can tell (maybe not consciously) that “you’re not fully there,” they tend to “go away” and become harder to reach. This can create a vicious cycle.
    So, I advised Arthur and Ellie to let go of the “touch for effect” strategy altogether. Now let’s talk about you. Here is what you can do instead: I call this the “touch for rapture” strategy.
    One: Begin to enjoy “selfish sex.” Make sure that every touch feels really good to you. Allow yourself to feel joy and delight for yourself in the present moment. This should be easy once you let yourself bask in how good she or he feels. Slow down—you are touching and feeling a precious object.
    Two: As you do step One, your partner will feel your joy. Let in his or her feeling of your energy as he or she becomes aware of your attention on them. Let yourself get the idea that your partner is feeling your enjoyment of them. People are hungry for attention and for that sense of being touched (and truly felt) in the present moment.
    Three: Relax, for it is in the relaxing you allow your own freeways of feeling to expand. Allow those feelings to spread through your body.
    Try it! Here’s the step-by-step:

    Face your partner, and ask him or her to extend their arm towards you. Support their arm with your hand (or a pillow) so that it’s very relaxed. You are going to stroke their arm. First, make your touching feel really, really good to your partner. Focus on your touching technique—your goal here is to make sure they have a really great experience.
    Do this for about a minute. Then stop stroking, and just hold their arm softly (attending to and enjoying the transition). Now, as you’re holding your partner’s arm, let your awareness soak into their skin. Feel (without moving) how good your partner feels. You are touching and feeling a precious object.
    Then slowly begin to stroke their arm with the palm of your hand, feel how good that feels to you. Just go into the joy of feeling. Really enjoy the moment!
    What did you notice with the first session? And with the second? Tell your partner what you noticed with each session. Now ask them what each session was like for them.
    Once you have tried this on a partner’s arm, and gotten the hang of it, you can transfer this skill to your partner’s more private parts! They (and you) will notice a profound shift when you touch for rapture rather than effect.
    When Arthur learned about Touch for Rapture, he realized that this was what he really wanted to do all along—he just gloried in how good Ellie felt, and now here I was telling him to feel her as deeply as possible—as well as to make it feel surprisingly good to himself. For Arthur (and therefore, of course, for Ellie), that was the magic key!

     

Wednesday, January 13, 2010

A baby asked God

A baby asked God, "They tell me you are sending me to earth tomorrow, 
but how am I going to live there being so small and helpless?" 
 
God said, "Your angel will be waiting for you and will take care of you." 
 
The child further inquired, "But tell me, here in heaven I don't have 
to do anything but sing and smile to be happy." 
 
God said, "Your angel will sing for you and will also smile for you. 
And you will feel your angel's love and be very happy." 
 
Again the small child asked, "And how am I going to be able to understand 
when people talk to me if I don't know the language?" 
 
God said, "Your angel will tell you the most beautiful and sweet words 
you will ever hear, and with much patience and care, your angel will 
teach you how to speak." 
 
"And what am I going to do when I want to talk to you?" 
 
God said, "Your angel will place your hands together and will teach 
you how to pray." 
 
"Who will protect me?" 
 
God said, "Your angel will defend you even if it means risking its life." 
 
"But I will always be sad because I will not see you anymore." 
 
God said, "Your angel will always talk to you about Me and will teach 
you the way to come back to Me, even though I will always be next to you." 
 
At that moment there was much peace in Heaven, but voices from Earth 
could be heard and the child hurriedly asked, "God, if I am to leave 
now, please tell me my angel's name." 
 
God said, You will simply call her, "Mom." 
 
"Your Heaven lies under the feet of your mother"

Monday, December 14, 2009

Newton and The Apple

Newton and the Apple the story we heard: You’ve probably heard of Isaac Newton. He’s pretty much the Jesus of physics. In the late 17th century, Newton practically fucking invented science. The discoveries we can thank him for include the laws of motion, the visible spectrum, the speed of sound, the law of cooling, and calculus. Yes, all of goddamn calculus. One wonders if anybody in history ever had a thought before Newton.




Newton and The Apple The Story and The Truth


Probably his most famous discovery, however, is the law of gravity. The story goes that Newton, a modest mathematician and professor of physics, was sitting under the shade of an apple tree one sunny day, when an apple dropped from a branch and bopped him right on the head.
While most people would merely think “Ouch! Son of a bitch!” and stare warily upward for 10 minutes, Newton’s first instinct was to formulate the entire set of universal laws governing the motion of gravitating bodies, a theory so sound that it went unchallenged and unmodified for over 200 years.


The Truth: Newton never mentioned the thing with the apple, and in fact it was another guy named John Conduitt who first told the story some 60 years after it supposedly happened. Even then, he was decisively vague about whether Newton actually saw an apple, or whether the apple is a metaphor that he used to illustrate the idea of gravity for people less intelligent than he was (read: everybody):


“Whilst he was musing in a garden it came into his thought that the power of gravity (which brought an apple from the tree to the ground) was not limited to a certain distance from the earth but that this power must extend much further.”


You’ll notice that even then we don’t get the thing with the apple actually hitting Newton in the head, it got added somewhere along the line to add the element of cartoonish slapstick to his genius life.


We like to think complex discoveries happen this way, with a sudden light bulb popping on over our head. Kind of makes it seem like it could happen to us one day, the next great idea will just occur to us while we’re wasting the afternoon on a park bench. In reality, Newton spent the best part of his life formulating and perfecting his theories.

Thursday, December 10, 2009

Secret marriage of Lollywood actress Meera exposed


According to the news channels Lollywood actress Meera had been married with a business man since 2007.

The marriage of film star Meera was revealed on Sunday after a dispute arose over Meera’s mother shifting antique furniture belonging to the film star’s ‘husband’ Attiqur Rehman.
 
Defence-A Police Station House Officer (SHO) Inspector Abid Rasheed told Daily Times that he had seen the nikahnama (marriage certificate), according to which the nikah was solemnised on September 2, 2007. He said the nikahnama was duly registered with the local union council. The SHO said he had also questioned the nikah khawan in Makkah Colony, who confirmed that he had performed the nikah.



Antique furniture: He said Attique had claimed that Meera’s mother, Shafqat Begum, secretly shifted the antiques from Attique’s house without informing him.

The SHO quoted Attique as saying he had asked his mother-in-law not to steal the antiques. Attique said he had gifted the actress a house in G-Block DHA, and did not want her to return it. According to the nikahnama that Attique showed to the police, he should pay Rs 20 million to Meera if he divorces her. He is also bound to pay Rs 0.1 million to her as pocket money. The dower money is stated at Rs 0.5 million.

Pictures of the marriage were also reportedly released to some TV channels. Police came to know of the incident after Attique called on emergency 15 and said his father-in-law, mother-in-law and their other son-in-law Raheel were beating him. Police arrested five men of each party from the scene, and took them to the police station. Later, they were released and told to return to the police station on Sunday at 10pm.

Denied: Meanwhile, in a press conference at her house, Meera denied the marriage. She said she only had business dealings with Attique, and he was trying to blackmail her. She said Attique had attacked her house on Saturday and she would have been killed if she were present there.

Thursday, December 3, 2009

Skin Transplant Surgery

  A married couple was in a terrible accident where the woman's face was severely burned. The doctor told the husband that they couldn't graft any skin from her body because she was too skinny. So the husband offered to donate some of his own skin. However, the only skin on his body that the doctor felt was suitable would have to come from his buttocks.

The husband and wife agreed that they would tell no one about where the skin came from, and requested that the doctor also honor their secret. After all, this was a very delicate matter.

After the surgery was completed, everyone was astounded at the woman's new beauty. She looked more beautiful than she ever had before! All her friends and relatives just went on and on about her youthful beauty!

One day, she was alone with her husband, and she was overcome with emotion at his sacrifice.

She said, "Dear, I just want to thank you for everything you did for me. There is no way I could ever repay you."

"My darling," he replied, "think nothing of it. I get all the thanks I need every time I see your mother kiss you on the cheek."

Monday, October 12, 2009

A Heart Touching Story

A Heart Touching Story

I was walking around in a Big Bazaar store making shopping, when I saw a Cashier talking to a boy couldn't have been more Than 5 or 6 years old. The Cashier said, 'I'm sorry, but you don't have enough money to buy this doll.
Then the little boy turned to me and asked: ''aunty, are you sure I don't have enough money?''
I counted his cash and replied: ''You know that you don't have enough money to buy the doll, my dear.'' The little boy was Still holding the doll in his hand. Finally, I walked toward him and I asked him who he wished to give this doll to. 'It's the Doll that my sister loved most and wanted so much. I wanted to Gift her for her BIRTHDAY.


I have to give the doll to my mommy so that she can give it to my sister when she goes there.' His eyes were so sad while saying this. 'My Sister has gone to be with God. Daddy says that Mommy is going to see God very soon too, so I thought that she could take the doll with her to give it to my sister.
'' My heart nearly stopped. The little boy looked up at me and said: 'I told daddy to tell mommy not to go yet. I need her to wait until I come back from the mall.'
Then he showed me a very nice photo of him where he was laughing.
He then told me 'I want mommy to take my picture with her so my sister won't forget me.'
'I love my mommy and I wish she doesn't have to leave me, but daddy says that she has to go to be with my little sister...' Then he looked again at the doll with sad eyes, very quietly. I quickly reached for my wallet and said to the boy. 'Suppose we check again, Just in case you do have enough money for the doll?''
'OK' he said, 'I hope I do have enough..'
I added some of my money to his with out him seeing and we started to count it. There was enough for the doll and even some spare money. The little boy said: 'Thank you God for giving me enough money!' Then he looked at me and added, 'I asked last night before I went to sleep for God to make sure I had enough money to buy this doll, so that mommy could give It to my sister. He heard me!'' 'I also wanted to have enough money to buy a white rose for my mommy, but I didn't dare to ask God for too much.
But He gave me enough to buy the doll and a white rose. My mommy loves white roses.' I finished my shopping in a totally different state from when I started. I couldn't get the little boy out of my mind. Then I remembered a local news paper article two days ago, which mentioned a drunk man in a truck, who hit a car occupied by a young woman and a little girl.
The little girl died right away, and the mother was left in a critical state. The family had to decide whether to pull the plug on the life-sustaining machine, because the young woman would not be able to recover from the coma. Was this the family of the little boy? Two days after this encounter with the little boy, I read in the news paper that the young woman had passed away.....
I couldn't stop myself as I bought a bunch of white roses and I went to the funeral home where the body of the young woman was exposed for people to see and make last wishes before her burial. She was there, in her coffin, holding a beautiful white rose in her hand with the photo of the little boy and the doll placed over her chest. I left the place, teary-eyed, feeling that my life had been changed for ever. The love that the little boy had for his mother and his sister is still, to this day, hard to imagine. And in a fraction of a second, a drunk driver had taken all this away from him.